2 Years No Sex, No Masturbation!

2 Years No Sex, No Masturbation!

If you would've asked me two years ago, "Could you ever see yourself being celibate and sharing publicly about it?"👀 ........ My response probably would have sounded a lot like, "You're kidding, right?" Mentally, I had already psyched myself out of several purity attempts. And frankly, I didn't think it could be possible to start [...]

Life During A Pandemic

Life During A Pandemic

Taking a moment to reminisce...December 2019 As everyone enjoyed their family and friends during the Christmas holiday. Once all the money was spent on gifts and food, hopping from house-to-house spreading holiday cheer amongst those you loved. We began to prepare for the end of a year and the beginning of another. We eagerly awaited [...]

Extending Grace In Hard Times

Extending Grace In Hard Times

Okay, I want you to think for a moment. What's one thing that someone does to aggravate you? I mean what really grind your gears. Are you not fond of a person walking slowly on a busy sidewalk? How do you feel about foot tapping? Is it a stressor when someone asks you multiple questions [...]

What’s The Vision? It’s Up To Us!

What’s The Vision? It’s Up To Us!

After the protests have ended, After the accusers have been convicted, After the hashtags quiet down, After the protests are no longer relevant, What's next? I asked myself this very question. What's next? Less than twenty-four hours prior, I participated in the world's biggest Civil Rights Movement, yet I felt afraid, hurt, and scared. The [...]

Unafraid: The answer is on the other side of fear!

Unafraid: The answer is on the other side of fear!

What's the one thing in life that scares you? I mean really scares you. Like, if it appeared to you right now you would completely lose it! There's no judgement here. Everyone has something they are afraid of. Yet, at the moment we began to call out our fear(s) we take the first step to [...]

Weathering Storms: A Little Rain Ain’t Hurt Nobody!

Weathering Storms: A Little Rain Ain’t Hurt Nobody!

This month is coming to an end. And for me, what started out on a high ended up taking a slight turn for the worse. As you may know, Empower Her Tulsa Meet Up went amazing! So many women of God came together for a morning of empowerment. If you ask me, January 18, 2020 [...]

No Sex. No Masturbation.

No Sex. No Masturbation.

Ding! Ding! Ding! The fight is on. Every morning when I am half asleep. Though my eyes are closed, I can still envision past affairs that I prematurely shared with individuals who I no longer have a connection to. Just an uneasy desire that makes it difficult to get out of the bed. Should I [...]