I Am No Longer Who I Used To Be

I Am No Longer Who I Used To Be

"You're cute for a big girl." "You dress nice for a big girl." If I had a dollar for every time I've heard these backhanded compliments my bank account would be lovely! I never really understood how anyone deeply felt this was a compliment. Like really, just because I'm not skinny I couldn't possibly be [...]

Your Name Is Your Identity: Be Careful What You Answer To!

Your Name Is Your Identity: Be Careful What You Answer To!

Do you know your name is more than a cute word? It's your life's identity! Your name establishes who you are. Each uniquely set of alphabetical letters help shape your destiny. Whenever you answer your name, you accept the meaning of the word in which you are being called. I remember in middle school was [...]

His Plans / Mine

His Plans / Mine

How old were you when you first started to plan for your future? Was it 8, 18, 28? Regardless the age, I'm sure there's been a moment where you had an idea of what your life could look like. Maybe, you thought of the dream home you would own or the car you would like [...]

The Homecoming

The Homecoming

I moved away from my hometown seventeen years ago in an effort to escape the pain of several childhood traumas and my mother’s death. She was a hardworking divorcee who read for sport, smiled wide and lived for her children. Losing my mom at eighteen sent me reeling into a tailspin of alcoholism, drug abuse [...]

Unafraid: The answer is on the other side of fear!

Unafraid: The answer is on the other side of fear!

What's the one thing in life that scares you? I mean really scares you. Like, if it appeared to you right now you would completely lose it! There's no judgement here. Everyone has something they are afraid of. Yet, at the moment we began to call out our fear(s) we take the first step to [...]

Weathering Storms: A Little Rain Ain’t Hurt Nobody!

Weathering Storms: A Little Rain Ain’t Hurt Nobody!

This month is coming to an end. And for me, what started out on a high ended up taking a slight turn for the worse. As you may know, Empower Her Tulsa Meet Up went amazing! So many women of God came together for a morning of empowerment. If you ask me, January 18, 2020 [...]

Yes…Emotional Tides Are Real And Can Be Healed!

Yes…Emotional Tides Are Real And Can Be Healed!

Some times it's hard to tell if we are involved in an emotional tide with someone. Believe it or not, many of us have been! We don't even realize it until we find ourselves in a situation where anything said or done involving a former significant other negatively triggers us. What do I mean you [...]